Wellbeing
At New College School, we pride ourselves on the excellence of our pastoral care and we go to great lengths to ensure the boys' wellbeing and happiness. Being a small school with a family oriented ethos, we foster close cooperation between parents and staff; by working closely together we can ensure that the boys are safe, happy and well cared for in their day-to-day lives at school. The NCS Wellbeing programme is part of our whole-school approach to pastoral care. Timetabled Wellbeing lessons occur on Wednesdays after lunch for Years 3-8. They connect with our Tuesday morning pastoral assemblies where various aspects of the Wellbeing grid are taught. The school community understands its role in modelling wellbeing to our pupils and embodies this approach in its interactions throughout the school community.

A crucial element of NCS’s wellbeing programme includes proactive pastoral care which assumes that pupils will face times of difficulty throughout their lives, and that arming pupils with appropriate strategies will help them to not only cope with the demands of modern life but to enjoy life and to flourish.
A focus on pupils’ wellbeing includes:
- Promoting their physical and mental health and emotional wellbeing
- Protecting them from harm and neglect
- Promoting their education, training and recreation
- Encouraging and guiding their wider contribution to society
- Promoting their social and economic wellbeing
- Promoting appropriate values and character strengths
Lessons are run by the form tutors and assistant form tutors who play a central role in the pastoral care of the boys in their form. The form tutor serves as the pupils’ and parents’ main point of contact for matters relating to the pastoral side of the school. Mr Morrison, Deputy Head Pastoral, is also available to discuss any pastoral matters that may arise. He also has reference to the School Counsellor as needed, who is available to all pupils and staff for drop-in sessions or by appointment.
NCS follows elements from the Family Links Nurturing Programme - based around the four constructs of self-awareness and self-esteem, appropriate expectations, empathy and positive discipline - along with strands of Positive Education. As part of this, boys are encouraged to express their thoughts and feelings in regular circle time sessions. Matters of relevance to the particular age group are addressed and discussed with sensitivity and care. At the upper end of the school, discussion groups are led by Form Tutors on matters of importance which might affect the boys' daily lives and future challenges.
NCS has a calm and purposeful atmosphere. This is not least due to our policy of using positive discipline, where boys are encouraged to see the importance and consequences of their actions and gain a sense of responsibility, through our encouragement of making the right choices. We encourage older boys to look after younger boys around the school, especially during break times, while new boys are assigned 'buddies' within their form to look after them and help them to settle in. Our Year 8 pupils assist Form Tutors by working with younger pupils during form time. This enables them to get to know the younger pupils and help foster a sense of cohesion between the different year groups in the school.
Relationships, sex and health education (RShE)
For our RSHE policy please click here.
Careers Education and policy
NCS plays a critical role in shaping the academic and personal development and also has a unique opportunity to equip students with the tools necessary for success beyond the classroom. One of these areas that NCS focuses on is career education. Integrating career education into the curriculum not only helps students gain a clearer understanding of potential career paths, but also prepares them to make informed decisions about their futures. In a rapidly changing world where the job market is constantly evolving, it’s vital that students are exposed to various industries, skill sets, and are encouraged to reflect personally on their interests in various employment sectors.
Moreover, providing career education at the prep school level helps bridge the gap between academic learning and real-world application. It allows students to develop crucial skills such as networking, decision-making, and goal setting - skills that will serve them well throughout their lives. By introducing students to a wide array of professions and encouraging them to explore different interests, prep schools can foster a more holistic and practical education. This kind of guidance enables students to understand not just what they are learning, but how that learning applies to their future careers, ultimately giving them the confidence and direction to pursue their aspirations.
If you or your child wish to discuss careers education in more detail, please contact Deputy Head Pastoral Brett Morrison brett.morrison@newcollegeschool.org, as the Careers Coordinator, Kate Lam, is on maternity leave from Trinity 2026 to Hilary 2027.
Please view the NCS Careers Guidance and Education Policy on the Contract and Policies page.
Pre-Prep
The Pre-Prep Wellbeing programme centres around pupils learning about themselves as developing individuals and as members of their communities, building on their own experiences and on the early learning goals for personal, social and emotional development. Pupils learn the basic rules and skills for keeping themselves healthy and safe and for behaving well. They have opportunities to show that they can take some responsibility for themselves and their environment. They begin to learn about their own and other people's feelings and become aware of the views, needs and rights of other children and older people. As members of a class and school community they learn social skills, such as how to share, take turns, play, help others, resolve simple arguments and resist bullying.
The programme centres around the Nurturing Programme’s four constructs of Realistic Expectations, Positive Discipline, Empathy and Self-Awareness and covers such topics as
- Getting to know each other
- Making Rules
- Praise and Criticism
- Getting in touch
- Personal Power
- Choices and Consequences
- Managing Anger
- Gentle touch and hurting each other
- Telling others/Keeping secrets
- Looking after oneself and the environment
- Keeping clean and Healthy
- Celebrating Differences
- Glad to be Me!
Year 3
The Year 3 Wellbeing programme centres around helping the boys to become more independent and aware of themselves as they transition into the Prep School. Most lessons are based around the PSB Wellbeing grid which can be found in their school planner.
Key topics covered this year include:
- How to manage friendships
- Healthy eating
- Personal organisation
- Resilience and positive thinking
- Kindness towards, and respect of our peers and family
- Responding to advice
- Communicating clearly
- Helping the wider world
- Growth Mindset
- What makes a good leader?
- Personal hygiene
Resources for parents and carers:
Parenting hub Family Links
Growth Mindset Information
Links to local youth sporting clubs in Oxford
Reading for pleasure recommendations of children’s books and activities
Grassroots mission challenging the effect of smartphone use in childhood
Year 4
The Year 4 Wellbeing programme aims to help pupils develop healthy habits for life. This year students will learn to reflect on their emotions and establish links between thinking and behaviour.
The key areas covered this year include:
- Relationships
- Communicating with others
- Understanding and giving praise and criticism
- Developing positive self-esteem
- Understanding and managing our behaviour (based on the Chimp Paradox for children)
- Choices and consequences for our behaviour
- Managing challenging emotions (i.e. anger, loneliness, frustration)
- Celebrating difference
Resources for parents and carers:
Parenting hub Family Links
The science behind habits, explained in an accessible way for children
Links to local youth sporting clubs in Oxford
Setting appropriate boundaries for young people online and offering technical support for parents
Grassroots mission challenging the effect of smartphone use in childhood
Wellbeing resources designed for young people by Dr Pooky Knightsmith
Nutritional guides, cooking activities and recipes for pupils and parents
Guidance for parents on online gaming and internet use
Exercise and nutritional guidelines for young people
Self-regulation and emotional control for young people
Year 5
The Year 5 Wellbeing programme continues with the major themes of the Family Links nurturing programme. We help pupils develop crucial organisational skills and greater independence as they start to have a greater number of lessons with subject specialists and thus move around the school site for more of their lessons. In addition, they further develop ideas on how to have a positive influence on the world around them by looking at sustainability through initiatives such as switch-off fortnight, waste week & and walk to school week.
Key areas covered this year include:
- Building Self Esteem
- What makes a good friend, in person and online
- Nutrition: understanding how to choose a balanced plate
- Developing skills in relaxation
- Physical Wellbeing: staying fit and healthy
- How do I feel? Recognising our emotions
- Managing challenging emotions and knowing where I can seek help
- Introduction to financial literacy
- Cyber safety
Resources for parents and carers:
Parenting hub Family Links
Appropriate sleep hygiene for young people
Setting appropriate boundaries for young people online and offering technical support for parents
Grassroots mission challenging the effect of smartphone use in childhood
Year 6
The Year 6 Wellbeing programme continues with elements of the Family Links nurturing programme along with elements of Character Education. By the end of Year 6 many pupils are likely to have access to a smart phone. While NCS acknowledges that this is decision that each family will come to privately, from Year 6 lesson will include looking at maintaining positive relationships both in person and in an increasingly online world.
Key areas covered this year include:
- Purpose and setting goals
- Cyber safety
- Friendships and social media
- Nutrition and exercise
- Active listening
- Dealing with pressure in positive ways
- Managing difficult emotions
- Character strengths
- Resilience
- Forming connections
- Decision making
Resources for parents and carers:
Parenting hub Family Links
Appropriate sleep hygiene for young people
Setting appropriate boundaries for young people online and offering technical support for parents
Grassroots mission challenging the effect of smartphone use in childhood
Year 7
As pupils enter Year 7 and begin their Pre-Senior Baccalaureate (PSB) they are afforded greater independence. We help boys to develop independent study skills and to be more proactive in their education. At the senior end of NCS pupils are expected to act not only as ambassadors for the school but also as role models to the younger members of the school community.
Key areas covered this year include:
- Character Strengths
- Looking after my own wellbeing: sleep, diet and exercise
- Purpose and career guidance
- Resilience and dealing with difficult times in the present and future
- Fostering positive relationships in person and online
- Putting appropriate strategies in place to promote mental wellbeing
Resources for parents and carers:
Setting appropriate boundaries for young people online and offering technical support for parents
Parenting hub Family Links
Character strengths explained, and resources for parents
Ideas for introducing social media to teenagers
Start exploring your training and career possibilities or get help working out your options
Appropriate sleep hygiene for young people
Latest ideas on the difficulties young people are facing and how to support
Articles and ideas on youth wellbeing
Exercise and nutritional guidelines for young people
Grassroots mission challenging the effect of smartphone use in childhood
Advice from experts and from young people who've found a path that suits them
Year 8/S
The Year 8/S Wellbeing programme establishes a variety of soft skills to allow pupils to develop lasting and positive relationships. The programme centres around helping the boys to become more independent ahead of their transition into the secondary school environment and enabling them to take ownership of the role they play in their own wellbeing.
Key topics covered this year include:
- Self-Care: appropriate sleep hygiene, balanced diet and appropriate nutritional choices, active lifestyle and the link between physical and mental wellbeing
- Identifying and understanding our emotions; roadblocks to wellbeing
- Independent study skills
- Communication skills, active listening and tolerance
- Authenticity and stepping out from the crowd
- Financial literacy, consumerism, impulsive behaviour and an online gambling case study
- Masculinity and gender stereotypes
- Risk-taking behaviour, decision making and the influence of alcohol, tobacco and illicit substances
- Sex and Relationships Education
Resources for parents and carers:
Setting appropriate boundaries for young people online and offering technical support for parents
Parenting hub Family Links
Character strengths explained, and resources for parents
Ideas for introducing social media to teenagers
Start exploring your training and career possibilities or get help working out your options
Appropriate sleep hygiene for young people
Latest ideas on the difficulties young people are facing and how to support
Articles and ideas on youth wellbeing
Exercise and nutritional guidelines for young people
Grassroots mission challenging the effect of smartphone use in childhood
Advice from experts and from young people who've found a path that suits them




















